Macular Degeneration - Maintaining a Positive Perception

Perception is the way you look at things. It's theyou. Out of absolute sheer desperation, I began
meaning you give to something.to look around and I saw something that made
I once heard a woman in a wheelchair say thatno sense to me.
when most people look at her wheelchair theyFirst, I saw people who, in my opinion, had
see it as something that confines her, somethingeverything a person could possibly need to
that holds her down. She said, "Oh no, mysucceed and yet many were not. Then I began
wheelchair does not confine me. It takes meto notice people who, in my opinion, had far less
places I otherwise could never go." If given anthan what I had but yet they were doing
opportunity, where could the challenge of Macularincredible things with their lives.
Degeneration and vision loss take you?I saw people who could not see and yet they
I lost my eyesight when I was eight years old. Dowere attorneys, college professors, investment
you think I saw that as being a good thing?specialists, authors, scientists, inventors, along with
Absolutely not. I saw it as being a terrible thing.others who were enjoying a whole host of other
As I grew into my teenage years, I wascareers that I never dreamed would have been
becoming more and more angry. I was angry forpossible for a person who is blind or visually
being different, angry for having to work so muchimpaired.
harder than everyone else. My anger explodedIn every case, these successful career people did
when the Department of Public Safety told menot look at their vision loss as a terrible thing.
that I could not get my driver's license...justThey maintained a positive perception. As you
because I couldn't see! But all of my classmates inmove forward with a confident perception, keep
high school were getting their drivers license. It'sin mind the wisdom of Dr. Wayne Dyer who said,
not fair that I can't drive, I kept telling myself."When you change the way you look at things,
I came very close to dropping out of high schoolthe things you look at change.
and to just giving up on life. So why didn't I? I'll tell